It’s ok to be you and to be selfish.

People are selfish creatures. I’m not trying to hate here; please don’t get me wrong but that’s just how it is. There are good people, marvelous even out there. To be honest, the good are the majority but the few bad people make the rest look bad.

They put you in a spot where you have to conform to the society. They are not willing to change so you’re forced to change in order to fit in. They don’t appreciate the differences you have. If they can’t change you they shun you. It’s really sad since you’re forced to drop everything you knew and believed in for something you’re not.

You lose yourself in the name of fitting in. The sad thing is; no matter how much you change yourself, they’ll never accept you wholly. There will always be something lacking and they’ll always point it out. Don’t lose who you’re for someone who wouldn’t do anything for you. Don’t kiss the ground they walk on for mere unneeded acceptance. Don’t walk into something blindly because of fitting.

Stand for what you believe in and trust me, you’ll love yourself for it. If they can’t embrace you, that’s their loss not yours. Love who you’re and don’t let anyone change that for you. I don’t know who needs to hear this but you’re enough as you’re.

Published by Vv.aA.,

Love reading, writing and research. I like it real and I give it as real as possible. Cooking is my therapy but writing helps me decompress in any situation.

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